How RUDE!

Being a mother, a sister, an auntie, and a good friend, I am around children on a daily basis. I am also a PCA for my mother in-law. That means I work with teenage boys. Loud, obnoxious, gross, annoying, rude teenage boys. 


I don't mind them normally, but there are some things I just can't ignore. Big D insists on spitting and hollering out my car windows after I have asked him several times not to in the last year. I am getting to my breaking point with him. He tells me what to do in my car! I'm sorry kid, but you don't pay for this vehicle, I do. So it is not your place to tell me to turn my radio down just so you can draw in my back seat. Don't complain about my music,especially if I still have to hear yours THROUGH  your headphones. Stop asking me to give your friends rides home from school where I pick you up every day, it is not in my job description to taxi your friends around. Don't ask me to stop at stores for you either. Don't be hollering at chicks (or dudes for that matter) out my car windows. Don't hock your lougies out my car window as well. These are all rude things they do on a daily basis. Yes I have told my mother in-law, who is also my boss, that they do these things, and no, nothing changes. I could get a new job, but not one that pays this well.  I remember when kids actually respected their parents and siblings. Oh yeah, I'm that old. I just don't understand how they can be so rude to me when I am just doing my job.  My summer is going to be spent shleppin around 2 to 3 kids every day, for 12 to 13 hours a day. I'm not so sure how this summer is going to go. I would like to do some magick to keep them from being so rude, but will it interfere with free will?  There is tell the truth spells and spells to speed things up as well, but I don't want to assume they don't interfere with free will. What would you do if you had to put up with what I do?